As October leaves with only two months remaining in this year, I am already reflecting on blessings of 2013. I finally buried my son’s ashes after having kept his urn beside my bed eleven years. I would never have imagine the peace I have had because I now know that I had never really let go until I had a grave marker showing me the date he left this phase of life. I enjoy selecting special flowers that make me smile and refect on the little things in his life we shared with love and laughter. Oh how I enjoy memories that make my heart sing. I am so thankful to the little church in the country that has a cemetery open to anyone. Finally, I have a heart full of song rather than walking with grief.